TL;DR: we have been together 4 months and she has become more attached than me but I am too afraid to let her go.
Me (18M) her (18F) have been together for 4 months. We’ve been going strong and instantly bonded and felt comfortable with each other.
Overtime, naturally, she started to become more and more attached and obsessed with me to the point where we were seeing each other nearly every day. If we weren’t seeing each other we were FaceTiming and texting. Me being an introvert I wanted more alone time, but I was too afraid to ask for this because she would get upset. As I am meant to be going into the military in 4 months my parents weren’t happy with this relationship because they believed it was too strong and would stop me from entering the military.
Recently we fell out and I came home and told my parents I broke up with her to give me the courage to do it later, but she begged and pleaded and I couldn’t do it. But as time goes on she has loosened and become less attached and more focused on my needs of alone time, but I don’t know if this is just because she fears losing me. Im really struggling right now and I need all the advice I can get.