Hi everyone I’m 26F and my spouse is 30M. We have known each other for a VERY long time and I’m so glad to be with him. Anyways I’m asking for some advice. He is 6,000 miles doing a Postdoc( PhD in physics for work) for the next 2 years.We are both from the USA. He’s been feeling homesick and I want to be as supportive as I can. Well this morning (my time) he kinda lost it. Saying I can’t do this and that I deserve someone better and who will make more money and that he can’t be there for me. I really don’t know how to make him feel better about this. I tried telling him that I support whatever he does and that I don’t need anyone else. What are some suggestions or advice to help him ease his mind with this. He’s never been like this so I’m very concerned. Thank you in advance.


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