I’m (26F) in a relationship with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 4 months. We have a nice time together when we meet up and I enjoy his presence and our convos. We also have similar goals for both the short and the long term which is important to me. I met my partner after 2.5 years of online dating, many rejections, many disappointments, a lot of people who ghosted me and even when I had few nice date with someone most of the guys decided not to keep meeting up. I had few short-terms relationships in the meantime not because I was looking for it but after 1-2 months the men felt they haven’t felt “the spark”. The problem is I like my partner, I really do. But I don’t feel like i’m in love with him. I don’t have the butterflies before we meet up, I don’t miss him between dates, I get attracted to him but I don’t get crazily attracted to him, I don’t have this silly smile when he texts me for a good night..
Advices?