Hi guys, I am new on reddit and this is my first post ever. Here is the problem. We have been together for almost 1 year and half. We are both 19, he is just a bit younger than me. We go to the same school and have a lot of classes together. But I kinda feel like we aren’t meant for eachother lately…
We have nothing in common, we don’t share any hobbies, he doesn’t like my taste in music, and also, he dislikes my friends. Our conversations have been really empty lately, since we don’t have the same humor. I don’t recall the last time we actually laughed at something together just the two of us… Our texts are just “wyd”, ”how are you”, “good night my love”, or arguing over something really stupid.
We met eachother on a party and jumped right into the relationship, we have never been just friends.
When we are hanging out the whole conversation is just him ragebaiting me, we never talk about anything. When we are at my house, we have nothing to do unless we are watching some film or some series…
I have tried to match his interests multiple times though. I started playing league of legends because of him, tried going to the gym, hang out with his friends, but it’s just not working out.
I realized that when I am out with my friends, I am really energetic, funny, extroverted, but when I am hanging out with him or his friends, I have nothing to say… idk why.
And that is why I keep telling myself, “why are we together then?”. There is nothing other than love that connects us… and i hate it. We have been together for so long and we have overcame so many things together. I have never loved anyone so much like I love him. I care about him so deeply, I hate thinking about breaking up…
We also see eachother everyday at school so it would be really difficult to ignore the other person.. Idk if we are able to be “just friends”.
It’s just that maybe, we aren‘t meant for eachother and if we dated someone with the same humor, we would be both happier… But I also don’t want to end it since we love eachother so much..
We have already talked about this and he pretty much agreed to everything.
TLDR: We can both see that it is a problem but is it really the problem we should break up for? What should we do next?