My gf (21) has an abusive father that comes home drunk every second day and fights with her mom, now i really feel bad for her but I’m trying my best to keep her happy from my end somehow but that man messes things up on a daily basis.
While i understand how difficult a situation it is for her but I’ve started to feel that its draining me too the frequent mood changes and everything, I hoped that it would get better but its been 2 years now it hasn’t improved much.
We could be very happy together talking and making plans but everything can get ruined shed shut down and would cancel all her plans with me for the next day if her dad came home drunk a day before and fought with her mom, i give her time and space too but it just happens again. While I do love her a lot but ive been feeling very helpless because ive tried everything and nothing that i do can sort things for her ofc, It has also led to me hating her dad and idk how things are gonna roll out in the future.
Please tell me what to do
TL;DR: Gf has an abusive father, its affecting the relationship a lot and i dont know how to help anymore.