I am in my late 20s and I realized that in my 20s, I was literally a ghost to women and they wouldn't even bat an eye. Now I still don't get a lot of attention from women but I tend to see that more people take me more seriously now and start having conversations with me.
I am doing very well in my life, I live a lone in my own house, I am a software engineer making a low 6 figure income and I finished my masters degree a few months back. I also have started dressing more professionally and get frequent haircuts and grooming myself. I am over weight and I am trying to lose weight but thats mainly for my health.
Did anyone else experience this shift in their 30s?