I recently matched with a really cute girl and we’ve been chatting daily for 3 days. She even gave me her phone number.

The conversations are easy, consistent, and she seems genuinely interested.

That said, I’m feeling pretty insecure. She’s very attractive and confident, and I’m more average-looking, a bit overweight, and don’t always have the strongest confidence. I’m worried about overthinking it or sabotaging things before they even have a chance.

How should I approach this moving forward? Should I just push past the insecurity and ask her out, or focus on building confidence first?

Any advice from people who’ve been in a similar situation would be appreciated.


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