(I don't know if this counts as a kink, but it felt like the most appropriate flair.)
I'm lucky to have a very good, satisfying sex life. There is only one, small thing I'd change in a perfect world.
I wish my husband ejaculated harder and farther.
I get really turned on by him cumming inside me. It feels great and is really hot. It almost always always get me off, too. The few times he has cum really hard were insanely sexy to me. I recently read that strengthening the pelvic floor helps, so I've been encouraging him to do exercises, but haven't noticed a difference yet. (I didn't mention the ejaculation thing, just said it would be good for our sex life in general to do pelvic exercises.)
My questions are:
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Is there anything else that would help? Or any specific exercises or things we should try?
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His first marriage was a "dead bedroom" which left him very low self-esteem, especially sexually, so I've been hesitant to mention this to him. I know he loves making me feel good, but I don't want to accidentally hurt his confidence or feelings. I was thinking of mentioning how hot it is when it has happened, but how do I ask him to do exercises specifically for this without it sounding critical? Am I worrying about this too much?