So me (f25) continued talking to m (43) and I explained to him that I didn't feel heard or seen he apologized and said that he was always interested on how I feel. A few days later we have some phone calls where he only talks about himself nonstop and when I said something he doesn't ask any follow up question. I think that because he already has my time an attention he doesn't try hard anymore. And emotional connection for me is more important than anything. I thought me having BPD was making me see everything in a negative light so I wonder I'm overreacting this time