Seriously considering dumping my best friend of 3 years
As stated in the title me and my best friend have been together for 3 years and I’m considering ending the friendship for multiple reasons.
1). She has a huge issue responding to my texts. This has been an issue throughout our entire relationship. we broke up about it before, and rekindled after she told me she would try to do. She will go days or even weeks without responding to me, but will send me TikTok’s or reply to my story. The most recent conversation I have with her it took her 13 days to respond to my text message. I understand she still keeping in contact but having a friendship where we can have emotional conversations and connection is important to me. Sending TikTok and replying to my story is not that. It shouldn’t take me over two weeks to have a normal conversation with you.
2). Sometimes I feel like she makes passive aggressive comments towards the things that I post. I posted a picture of me at the airport about two or three days after I got my hair done. She responded and said “you loving this sew in huh”. I thought that was weird because that doesn’t really feel like a compliment. It feels like a subtle way of saying “ you got your hair done and you’re posting about it too much”. Her responses are also very low effort all the time. People who have never met me or been friends less time than me put more effort into the replies when I post things.
3). She has never initiated to hang out with me other than for attendance of an event or help situationally. Out of the three years that we have been friends, we have only hung out twice outside of an important life events. Both of those instances, I initiated the hangout. She literally rode past my house today and didn’t even think about texting me or visiting me.
The only reason I have considered giving her grace is because she had a baby seven or eight months ago. I feel like this really isn’t valid because it has been an issue going on for our entire relationship before the baby even existed.
Would it be valid to end my friendship with her for good this time?