Yes you might be a late bloomer but that self pity isn't helping you at all.
In fact it's making it worse.
So many posts asking if it's ok if your 30+ and never been on a date.
Just own it. You've no other choice anyways. It's true. So be authentic to yourself first then you can express your emotions authentically to others in a healthy manner.
Which will infinitely improve your dating chances.
If someone doesn't wanna date you because of your past situation, move on. There's nothing to be done about it. That's their preference. Ruminating isn't gonna help.
Good luck ❤️🤞