Hi I'm looking for advice on what can we do. I love my bf very much but sex is tricky.
We can only do really soft and slow sex (which is alright but sometimes we want something else). But if he (or me) gets carried away while penetrating, I start to feel pain and sometimes I bled (I have checked and I don't have any STDs or any hormonal issues). We have tried foreplay and lube but doesn't seem to be working.
This is starting to become an issue as basically if we start getting hornier, we need to stop, and that leaves us both unsatisfied. We have tried other things but we both enjoy penetration the most.
For context his dick is 9 inches long (23cm) and I'm short (5.1'', 1.58cm).
Has anyone else experienced something similar?