Me (39M), her (38F). Dating 2 years.
Does anyone else feel their best and worst attribute in a relationship is consistency?
Best when it gives your partner a very predictable form line. Show up the same, day in and out. Leave bad days at the door before you get home etc.
Worst in that it feels very easy to get taken advantage of and puts no onus on your partner to take any initiative or effort at times.
TL;DR – How to communicate that you’re being taken for granted without the other person getting defensive and trying to turn it around that it’s your fault?