I’m 34f and my husband is 40m. He’s a really great man but he prioritizes his cars. He has 6 cars and they all work and are paid off. He is constantly dumping money into them though. I genuinely don’t mind him having a hobby but this morning I just broke down and packed most of my stuff and spent all day moving out. He bought 2300 dollar rims. It’s a second set for his favorite car. He spent 500 also replacing the head gasket on a different car. Our washer, dryer, oven and dishwasher are all hanging on by a thread. We have casually discussed replacing all of them and currently split bills. I asked him if we could look at dishwashers this morning since ours is moldy and doesn’t get hot anymore. He told me he could only spare 100 dollars to replace it. I just don’t understand how he doesn’t care. He lives in the house too. Has anyone ever stayed with a partner that puts them second and been happy? It’s just hard because I love him so much and want to fix things but our marriage is new and I didn’t realize how bad things were till after I moved in.