For backstory. Me and this girl are seeing each other and it’s going pretty well. We are on winter break right now from college and we live 3 hours apart so we haven’t seen each other in almost a month. It was going well tho. We texted every day, were very flirty, we decided to start a Minecraft world together to help stay in touch. But that’s where I also started getting suspicious, the first night while I was trying to figure out how to invite/friend her(I am not tech savvy at all)
I saw she was online with someone else and started ignoring my texts. I shrugged it off and assumed she was with another friend and I understood, I can be too caught up in games to look at my phone sometimes too. But then she started messaging me less and less often to the point where it’s only me starting the conversations now.
I let her know before I tend to be an overthinker and I decided to see if she would text me first, it was three days and I broke that and texted first today. But that lead me to look at her socials to see if something’s happening or if she’s been active. I then saw a post I had already looked at one time from about a year ago but it had new comments that were dated a year ago of some guy calling her beautiful and it was a grwm to go on a date with that exact guy. And then she posted today and a guy with the same username commented, nothing flirty but still. Me and her talked today and she knows I’m upset now but doesn’t know what about. Honestly I believe I know the answer to the first question and she has likely unblocked and is talking to an ex after a year now. Basically my question is should I confront her now or when we will be in person together again Sunday? I find it hard to explain how I know about this over text to her but I’m losing my patience rn bc I asked her about a date I had mentioned when we get back and asked if telling her when we’re back is ok and she hasn’t responded in over 2 hours now
(ps. that Minecraft world also had both there names on it so that’s why I brought it up)