So I’m 24m and my gf is 24f we been friends since we were kids and after I back from college last year she convinced her feelings towards me and I told her I have the same feelings but I was to afraid to talk about it because I was scared that will ruin our friendship , and we dated since then .
She comes from big family she had 2 sisters and two brothers and she the oldest .
My problem is with her younger brother 6m , he cute and small boy and he so shy and barely can talk three words , I love him and I consider him my little brother and I always bring him snacks when I come to pick her up .
The problem is he always come with my gf , he so clingy to her and he always sitting on her lap and or sit next to her like his life depends on her , and I find it so cute , but man I want some time with my gf , if I go to her place (she lives alone ) I found her brother come to her place to spend the weekend , when I take her to eat somewhere , she bring him with us , it’s not about the money or anything like that I mean what he will cost me? 10 dollars no problem, but I want to with her , I want to talk with her , I want to flirt with her , and I felt uncomfortable try to do anything while her brother is with us .
Her siblings age are 21f 17m 11f and she always tells me he struggles to bond with her siblings or make friends and he only feels comfortable with her and her mother .
So what do I do now , how I can tell her that I don’t want her brother to come with her , it’s like she bring him with us 70% of the times , and sometimes I feel I’m the bad guy for want to ask her that because I know how much her brother loves her .
So what I need to do now?
Any advice would be appreciated
Note : English isn’t my first language.
Note : her mother is a doctor and work so much hours.
Tldr: my gf bring her little brother many times and it’s makes me uncomfortable how I can tell her to stop bring him without being rude ?