I (20F) been with my bf (20M) for couple months. we are LDR and recently he bought up an idea I should move in with him for few months to work with him so that we get to spend time and I get to find a job since my state has barely any jobs. I agreed but I'm currently unemployed with strict parents so I knew it wont work. I had to tell him that they disagreed till I find some money from a job in my local area. He seemed to be alright but he was sad after hearing is what he said.
The night before, nothing really happened. he responded normally and was like ''I'm going to sleep soon'' and stuff and I said I wanted to show something to him the day after and he said that ''I cant really see it tmr'' I couldn't ask the reason. And as expected he didnt reply yesterday. I brushed it off thinking maybe it's for couple hours? no. Hours went by and completed a full day. I was dumbfounded. I DONT know the reason. Whats more upsetting is that around 11pm for his time (he's currently away in holiday and hes 3hrs behind me) I saw him playing a game we usually play which means he had time to do that and not reply to me. Thats when I knew something is wrong. I feel guilty it might be my fault. If I wasn't broke I would have gone. 🙁 I told him to look at the bright side that I will see him eventually very soon in a months or two and yh. I dont think he realise that strict parents have strict ways for boys and girls differently. Just a talk wouldn't be enough especially since I'm a girl. He said thats how he got permission to move to this country but my parents are the overprotective asf type over a girl.
I would love some advice. I want to know what really is happening. I want some advice how to cope with this please.