I was in a 3 year relationship throughout highschool , we had a lot of sex & life was great. Long story short, we broke up & moved on with our lives. I’m in college & feeling lost in terms of relationships. I slept around with a few girls but it didn’t feel fulfilling, I don’t like the “no emotional connection” sex. I see other guys being able to fuck around with anything and anyone, but I just can’t. I need to be emotionally invested with someone to be able to even do it. But shit sex is great, it’s hard living without it & just jerkin off haha. I don’t want to get into a relationship again mainly because I’m locked in on my goals & where I’m headed. I don’t think I’d be able to give enough time to my girl if I was in a relationship right now. Isn’t that weird tho, can’t have sex with random people but don’t wanna get into a relationship either. Is there no middle ground? What can I do? Any advice