TLDR got married on February 29th thinking less celebrations Now agreed to celebrate anniversary but now don’t know what day
I (40 something F) am married to my (40 something male) have been married since 2020. We got married on February 29th because I don’t like celebrating things. I figured we can celebrate every four years and then he gets his celebration and I don’t have to worry about it (he knows who he married!
When I say I don’t like celebrating things, I mean obligatory things, Christmas, birthday, valentines, even others like Valentine’s Day blah blah blah. We agreed, no presents (if he wants something then just get it)
It’s been about 6 years and I’ve started to feel guilty because maybe he’s missing out on celebrating things he’s would like to so I asked him and he said he’d like to celebrate our anniversary every year.
Ok but he thinks our anniversary (on off years) is the last day of February (28th) but I think February 29 is technically March 1st (day after February 28th)
So Reddit please help me in our biggest disagreement ever! Am I right or is sweet hubby? When is our not leap year anniversary? I’m wondering if I should make it on whatever day is easier to take off work but I think he wants a specific date.