Hi all, I am currently attempting to date this girl. Who for anonymity i shall name, "Jane".
Jane and I have been talking for a few days, havent met up yet. Jane and I went to school together some 12 years ago, so I am familiar with her and she's not a total stranger. But sometimes Jane can take a while to get back to me, sometimes its 20 mins, sometimes ts 5 or 6 hours. But when she does respond she puts effort into her messages.
Often she will write a decent amount, always asking me questions back. Or speaks about her opinions etc. So I dont feel like she is making little effort. She is just painfully slow.
For context, she is a primary school teacher, so must have a busy life naturally. Im cool with that, I would just rather know if its her busy life keeping her astray, or me?
Edit: I have asked her on a date properly. It was for thus coming weekend. However she said she couldn't because she had family commitments and errands to run. And said she'd have to "delay slightly"