i 19F and my bf 18M have been having trouble with sex and my bf says i’ve made it too much of a “game” now i definitely am insecure and most of the time i cannot get him off but i cum up to 5 times depending on what we’re doing i don’t even know what to do now because he says i’ve put so much pressure on him to cum that he doesn’t even want to now i’ve tried doing things that he’s into and i just get disappointed when things don’t go how i wanted and i have tried not caring about it or crying to him about it but it never lasts and i always end up getting upset when i look down and realise it’s only me feeling good i just want advice on how other people deal with something like this or how i can put my feelings aside cos it’s gotten to a point were he doesnt want to do things with me (which is my fault i wouldn’t want to do things with a whiny bitch) how can i make things better for him or take away some of the pressure i’ve put on him?