TL;DR For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 years. We do tend to joke around about the weirdest things and have the same sense of humour but sometimes the things he says can hurt my feelings but he just says “it was just a joke”.
Me (24F) and my boyfriend (29M) were laughing together earlier tonight and he knows i am very insecure about my body and it is a super sensitive topic for me. He says to me as i’m on top of him “get off me fatso” and laughs as if that was supposed to be funny. As i’ve said that is a super sensitive topic for me and he should know that as we have been together for many years, but he thinks it’s no big deal. He does tend to make these type of “jokes” sometimes and I can’t help but think he just does not care about how they make me feel at all. I just want some advice on where to go from here because I do love him so much but It is really hurtful to me since I have had struggles with food and have always been insecure.