Hi! I posted a couple of months ago about how I slept with my best friend of three years back in September. And turns out we still have not seen each other since.
It’s been a strange couple of months. We still text almost every day, play video games together, send each other memes, etc, and I feel like we are still quite close. Our conversations have even been a bit flirty at times (at least I feel like they were?). But since September, we have not really talked about what happened, and whenever it comes to seeing each other again, it is as if our schedules never align. He always tells me he’s busy or gives other excuses.
Honestly, I feel like he is avoiding me, and it’s starting to make me sad. I don’t understand how he’s acting and I’m afraid what happened has hurt our friendship, and I am not sure what I do. I still like him a lot and want to start friends, and I have to admit I would not be too mad about spending another night with him. The only time I tried talking about what happened and asked him if he regretted it, he only told me that he is not the kind of person to regret things, which is not a very clear response.
I am currently back in my hometown for the holidays, and he asked me multiple times when I’ll be back and said he wants to see me. But it’s always the same and I know that it won’t happen. I am not sure what to do now, and whether it would be smart to try talking about it again or if it would hurt our friendship even more.
TL;DR : I slept with my best friend of three years back in September, and we have still not seen each other since. We still text every day and act very close but I do not understand how he acts.