I [29F] want to make this clear before I continue, I have never cheated on my boyfriend or ever will. I know for a fact that this condom wrapper was from my previous relationship which is over a year and a half ago. I am currently in the process of moving so we’re moving things around and cleaning my apartment. While tearing apart my room , my boyfriend found a condom wrapper under my bed and thinks I cheated on him or is cheating on him. I literally do not have the time to cheat on him even if I wanted to, cause if I’m not at work, I’m with him.. Once in a while I ask for some space and stay at my apartment, not to cheat but to have some space or clean my apartment since I’m barely there. He’s pretty upset and claims that my “story” of this being old is crazy and unbelievable. I don’t know what I can do to convince him that it is old.
I completely understand where he is coming from because if it was the other way around, I would also be very upset and think the same way. I’m lost cause I’ve never cheated or ever gave him any reason to believe that I would cheat on him. He’s been in a couple relationship where he got cheated on so he has no patience for cheating. He wants to either label me a cheater or a “dirty b**” for not cleaning up after “f***” dudes. I’m not happy with the way he’s treating me about something that I didn’t do but I can also understand where he’s coming from. So how could I convince him to believe the truth without being too pushy?
So to summarize, I’m being falsely accused of cheating, I didn’t and he wants to end it because he can’t be together with someone he can’t trust. I’m feeling lost and heading home to give him his space but he’s made up his mind that my truth isn’t the truth and that his truth is the truth and that I am a cheater. Td:lr