Hi everyone,
I (18F) have a boyfriend (18M) and we’ve been dating for a while. He has invited me over before and even said “please come” yesterday, but I didn’t end up going that day.
Now I want to ask him if I can come over, but I’m overthinking it 😭
I feel weird directly saying “Can I come to your place?” because he didn’t ask again himself, and I don’t want to come across as desperate or pushy.
Is it normal/okay to ask this directly?
How would you phrase it in a casual, non-awkward way?
Would really appreciate some outside perspective because my brain is spiraling lol.
TL;DR My boyfriend has invited me over before, but I didn’t go that day. Now I want to ask if I can visit his place, but I’m worried it’ll sound desperate. Is it okay to ask directly, and how should I phrase it casually?