I come from a very conservative country and have never had sex before and same goes for my partner. We’ve always done other stuff and helped each other orgasm but just never sex.
Recently we talked about it and agreed that we should try it out. Whenever we start making out it always starts out great and I get really turned on and so does she, but when I try penetrating it does not go further than the tip. I want to take it slow so she doesn’t get hurt, but ultimately I end up losing my erection almost 1 min in.
Does anyone have any advice other than lots of foreplay and lube? I don’t know if it’s nerves or I’m doing something wrong.
I don’t have any issues when it comes to other sexual activities. We tried again today and was going fine until I noticed blood on my penis. It was not excessive but kinda freaked me out. She was not in pain just a bit uncomfortable, is this normal?
Some context, we have been trying penetration but this is the most we were able to get it in over the last couple of times.