I have changed my place from foreign land to India and staying with his family. I did lot of compromise in this married life but couldn't feel appreciated and loved for it.
I feel my husband doesn't love me. He just need me when he feels lonely or doesn't have people around. This feeling is consistent and never changed.
I am tired of sharing my feeling with him and now I giving up.
Yesterday on new year eve he was going out to pick up his nephew and my family stays near by so I wanted to meet my family but he refused to go there and said we will go next week. We met his nephew last week as well.
I am always being nice to his family but he never consider or keep my family on top of his.
He never things of my happiness. I will never forget or forgive him for this.
Never in this life for sure and now I don't want to feel anything for him. He is one selfish man who thinks of his family and himself.
I don't have any friends where we stay and I work from home so my social life is zero. I am tired of explaining this to him now and I dnt want to explain any thing to him from now onwards
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Was this an arranged marriage?
I recommend you both read the 5 love languages. It is a very good book and will help you understand your husband more. Marriage should be something we strive to keep going and it takes a lot of effort. There will be times he feels unloved and times you feel the same. Its regretful you feel thisbway about him and hopefully it can be rectified through some work.