Hello hello!
So I feel very weird writing this here but I’m trying my best to cover everything and get all the tips I can.
I’m a women, 23 and I never reached an orgasm.
I have a high sex drive and have a boyfriend with a very high one as well.
The sex is great, I feel very comfortable with him and we have lots of fun but unfortunately, I never get to the orgasm.
I’ve had 2 other sex partners before him and also didn’t happen with them, so I’m pretty sure it’s a me issue.
He tries his best, and we have tried a lot of different positions and stuff to see what feels better for me. And the thing is I at some point feel super “close” I guess, like the urge to “pee” and I try to focus on it but then I get impatient because I don’t feel like it has an end. I even have tried to keep going after I’m clearly overstimulated but then I think my body gets super sensitive and it kind hurts, not like pain pain but weird. I even cried from frustration once or twice.
In terms of doing it alone with masturbating, I’ve never gotten there either, I just feel like I can’t keep going at some point.
I really want to experience it, it’s not even him making any pressure on it, but I also know that it’s something we both really want to get there together.
Could there be anything biologically wrong with me? What should I do? Should I just tell him to keep going despite me starting to get “upset” during it?
Please help a desperate girl out!!!!!