So awhile back we had my husband's brother living with us. He was on drugs at the time and things were not great. The brother had a friend (tony) that came over to get high. I had just started living with my then fiancé so I didn't know these people or the situation very well. Tony would bring his kid with him when he came over. I didn't immediately know they were doing drugs as I was naive. Tony would be at the house for 30mins to an hour and then leave with his kid. When I found out that they were doing drugs I exploded because he was bringing his child. I couldn't believe that there were all these adults in the house and no one ever said or did anything about this guy driving on fetanyl with his young child in the car. I threw a fit and Tony ended up not coming over ever again, but everyone was upset with me. Even my fiancé. He said it was none of our business how he raises his kid, and his son would be worse off if we ended up having to call the police on him for driving his son home high from our house. I sort of get that, but we live in washington so he'd probably be out the next day. Our laws are very lax. This always bothered me, and still does. We've had arguments about it when he does other things that make me question his morals. Was I overreacting? Is he underreacting? He seems to have a pattern of doing whatever is easiest and won't upset people. He doesn't like confrontation and just says "its not my business." Which is fine for most things but when a child is in danger, that should be everyone's business. Or if people drive home drunk from our house. He keeps saying that I'm on a moral high horse.