Basically my GF and I have been intimate for a while now. We are both each other’s firsts and we are both very new still to intimacy with another person. We haven’t had sex yet but have done pretty much everything else up to that. We discussed sex the other day and my girlfriend said she wasn’t ready because she doesn’t think she’s had the big O yet from us being intimate and wants to figure that out before we actually have sex (totally understandable!). But why I’m coming onto here is because what I have noticed from her when we are intimate seems so much like she is orgasming, and since she isn’t then what is going on with her? First off, I know her, she’s not faking her reactions if you were thinking that while reading this. I always try to make sure she’s very wet before I do anything, and I always try and do stuff that I know she likes. We also communicate with each other through it where I ask her what she wants me to do and other stuff like that. But basically after we are done she’s totally star-fished in the bed, tired, and her lower body periodically shakes for a while after we are done. She usually has to pee after she calms down. And also she always says she feels really good afterwards. So what is going on then if that’s not an orgasm?