please spare me harsh words.
my boyfriend watches instagram reels of young women dancing, lipsyncing, or showing off their body in a provocative way (think Sophie Rain etc.). sometimes the girls are in bikinis but more often than not, just regular tight athletic clothing. he said he jerks off to these because "external stimuli" is sometimes needed, and that he used to watch porn.
is it unreasonable of me to want a relationship where this doesn't happen? like for example, I am not pleasuring myself to Instagram reels of muscular guys, and so I would want my partner to do the same. should women accept that their male partners will view that type of content throughout their relationship?
I am struggling to believe there is no association between jerking off to that content and starting to view women in the street who are wearing athleisure as something you can pleasure yourself to.
just looking for some advice or guidance, if the consensus is "get over it," that's fine too