I started messing around with a coworker about almost 4 months ago just flirting/making out a couple times and regularly sending nudes. At first it was great I loved talking to him and getting to know him.
After about 3 weeks he convinced me to send some more lewd photos. When I sent them he was sarcastic abt it saying I sent one when he sends so many whenever i want. But he insisted it was ok that I was hesitant because I’d never done that . I said this and told him he could’ve asked especially since I told him that’s what I like. He agreed and I put him on time out basically for 2 weeks. I feel like ever since I showed so much the last 3-4 weeks half our interactions his responses are slow and lack enthusiasm, sometimes he asks for something specific and I’m usually hesitant then I agree but his response is shitty or he says nothing at all. He rarely has conversations with me either. I told him I like words of affirmation, reassurance, and friendly conversation so he gave me a couple dirty messages and the driest conversation ever.
The other day coming into work I teased him a little and he really liked it so he messaged me asking to meet in the woods the next day. I wasn’t sure at first but then agreed to do it. I told him when I’d be able to do it (the next day) and he never responded. Just a few hours before the time I planned to meet him I had to cancel but he still never responded. I told him he didn’t seem interested but if he was I couldn’t make it. He replied within seconds saying he had fallen asleep. Then he told me not to be mad and asked if I need a hug specifying an “actual” hug which I didn’t realize he was giving me fake ones😭.
I was irritated that he couldn’t respond to that but he responded right away to me canceling. I specifically told him I like reassurance because I’ve asked a few times if he’s lost interest or doesn’t like some of the things I send him. This just felt even more like he’s not really into me anymore. What’s the best way to bring this up to him?