So a while back I (32M) was making a few posting a spark on my dates, not long after that I had 2 dates with real sparks. I chose the woman (31F) that I knew I had the best feeling with. And so far (8 months) I was right we've gone on vacation together with 0 conflict, we've told eachother we love eachother (the first time someone said this to me).
Things are going great, we have fun date nights but also just enjoy the little things like making dinner together and having a quiet evening on the couch, we both fit great in eachother friend groups.
Things are going so good we decided we're moving in together and we've found a really beautiful apartment and will be moving in the first of March.However this is the first time I will be moving in with someone, and this is making me kinda anxious. I truly believe this is the right choice but my over analyzing mode has been firing on all cylinders lately thinking of a thousand what ifs.
Is this normal or were other people just 100% sure and without any anxiety when moving in together? And if not how did you manage to deal with is?