Please read I need all the help I can get. My husband and I have been married for 3 years. It’s been miserable to say the least. We have tried couples counseling and every therapist we have worked with tells my husband he needs to do individual therapy before we can work as a couple in therapy. He refuses. He says he knows more than the therapists. I’ve asked him for years now to get help, or put in effort in this marriage. He doesn’t. He yells at the kids who are 1&2, rarely helps and expects me to do everything. It’s gotten to the point that both our kids scream and cry and beg for mom because they never want him. He always says “can’t wait till you are out of my life” because I end up just snapping and losing my cool with him. He also is heavily addicted to porn and won’t change that either. Always tells me if I was willing to have sex more than maybe he’d stop. It’s time to leave but I need to find a job to afford it and then provide for my kids. Because of how little they are I want a SAH job so I can still be with them. Does anyone know of any leads? Places to look into for SAH employment?