When I saw it I made a big deal about it because it makes me uncomfortable. He says it’s normal, doesn’t mean anything, and that’s how everyone at his work talks to each other, male or female. Like a “thanks for helping with this, love you” type thing. I work at a big corporation and that is just unimaginable to me.
After I saw that, he showed me all of their texts to “prove” that there’s nothing wrong going on between them and on one text she called him her “emotional support person” which upset me so so much.
I don’t feel comfortable with them being so close, I don’t know if I’m being controlling because I do not think there’s anything going on between them but I don’t like him being so close to a female he spends 40 hours a week with… what do people think about their partner having platonic friendships of the opposite sex? Thank you