Im confused about this new guy,
Hes one year older than me. We have so
Much in common by that I meant everything
He’s like my twin flame. But there are obvious differences between us.
We both like each other but the problem is he can’t regulate his emotions, hes 19 (M) and I’m 18 (F). He tends to cry, get overwhelmed, overthink. He would say stupid things that would annoy me. But again when he’s trying to clarify he would something say something worse, I have major overthinking issue as well
He throws tantrums like he would say why cant I say good morning instead of morning,
Hed act like a whiny child.
I took therapy, Ive changed so I’m able to regulate my emotions, I’m able to be more calm and collected but he, hes still the same despite all of efforts
I’m kinda exhausted with handling his emotions, his feelings or continuously reassuring him. Like I said we are basically the same person but I’m kinda tired of being the understanding person while he can’t even handle the slightest anger of mine. It sounds all cute at first but with time it got annoying, because I can’t show my anger, frustration because he’d cry. I’ve been talking to him for the past 4 months and I’m already exhausted. Because I feel like a man giving his girlfriend princess treatment.
I have explained it to him couple of times about his issues but there’s no change
Because he gets depressed, Kinda?
He makes everything about himself somehow, I would be upset instead of acknowledging that he’d make it about himself and how I hurt him him and make him feel unwanted?
I was planning on dating him after I was done with my exams
I don’t know If I sound super selfish, arrogant
Can someone please help me out, I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings
Hes been through alot so I don’t want to hurt him