She’s not gonna commit to me, is she?
I’m a 19 year old guy and I’ve been seeing a 30 year old woman for about two months now.
We hang out regularly, hook up, go out together sometimes, and generally act like we’re kind of dating. The issue is that whenever I bring up commitment or the idea of actually entering a relationship she dodges it.
She doesn’t outright say no, but she’ll change the subject, joke it off, or say things like “let’s just see where things go” or “I don’t like labels.” I’ve tried bringing it up more than once because I don’t want to assume anything, but I always end up feeling brushed off.
I do like her, and I wouldn’t keep seeing her if I didn’t. But I’m starting to feel stuck in this limbo where I’m giving relationship energy without actually being in one. At the same time I don’t want to pressure her or come off as immature or needy. Am I getting my hopes up? I just need someone to be real with me at this point.
Also I will not get offended by anyone’s comments nor will I argue with anyone’s opinion