There is absolutely a disorder or a few going on , but sometimes the info I read about a narcissistic Personality contradicts with humans sometimes it’s spot on . But maybe there is something else that he fits into better . We have been together 30 years . I’m a forgiving soul and a strong woman of faith . I’m silly and fun and young for my age and I don’t think I’m the problem here . I’m sure I
Not innocent , but it really is hard to find a reason to not like me .. 🤣. Just being honest . But my heart and soul are breaking under him and we need help badly . He refuses to talk to anyone , he’s private and I need some help here . Thought this could be a place to start . Try to find out what is going on in his head . Thanks !
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No reliable one no. Best bet would be to go see a professional.
You could try the ACE test. It would at least give you a direction to go in. Read about it and take it here: [ACE-Q – Adverse Childhood Experiences Questionnaire](https://novopsych.com/assessments/diagnosis/adverse-childhood-experiences-questionnaire-ace-q/?utm_source=bing&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=SW%20%7C%20ASQ%20%7C%20US&utm_term=aces%20test&utm_content=ACE)
Thirty years of ‘faith’ and ‘forgiving’ is just another way of saying you’ve been a professional doormat. You don’t need a test; you need a spine and a divorce lawyer.
The Internet is widely known for its reputable ways of diagnosing people without a professional involved /s
honestly after 30 years you don’t need a medical diagnosis to know that he’s just treating you badly.