Hello everyone, my girlfriend used to make jokes that would make me very uncomfortable, because the jokes were like it sounds like a joke but it's not, it's very passive aggressive and it really makes me uncomfortable, so i talked to her about for 2 years and she finally kinda stopped, but now it's happening again just on different topics, it used to be about our problems or relationship or idk, now it's those crazy tiktok video, today it was a video of a woman showing what a man ordered for his gf because she's mad at him that he slept and didn't tell her happy new years, and basically the amount of chocolate he is gifting her is litterlly my salary, but she just sent me videos like this and it started to make me feel very uncomfortable because she said after "and i get mad for free?" Like that was 1h ago and genuinely i feel so much pressure my chest is tighting up and I can't breathe.
Idk how to even talk to her about it and it's exhausting, I'm thinking of just starting to give her a taste of her own medicine since she wants unrealistic tiktok videos, i also get unrealistic videos on my feed but maybe I'll start sharing them with her. About the unrealistic things she must do as a gf.