I'm working New Year's Day, so I didn't ask my GF of one year to spend NYE with me. I told her that I accepted my boss's offer to work that day as I had a feeling she wouldn't ask me to go out. She then told me that if you don't ask you don't get. It is my fault for being greedy and accepting the shift apparently..
I ended up feeling a bit lonely and stayed with family.
When we spoke, she told me point-blank she wouldn't have celebrated with me anyway because she didn't want to come home early just because I have work. She'd rather go clubbing so she could stay out late. Basically then she told me that if I wanted to spend it with her she l shouldn't have gone to work and since I didn't make a sacrifice why should she.. Pretty much told me I am the biggest suck it up to my boss for working today..
I did ask friends to hang out but some said they had coursework and my other friend did not want to leave the club event early either.
Is it okay to feel stung that she wouldn't even consider a shorter night together just to be with me?