I’m M21 and I’ve been talking to a F21 who lives 10 hours away from me. We’ve talked on and off over the past year but have known each other each other since our junior year of high school, she liked me then and sent me a note in class saying “You’re Cute” with lil hearts when she still lived in my time but I couldn’t act on it cause I had a gf at the time and couldn’t act interested. Then me and that gf broke up and I wanted to start talking to her but she had started dating someone and then I found someone. Skip abt 2 years later we both now have toddlers, I work full time and she works part time and we live a few states apart. I really really like her and don’t want to hurt her. We know if we take this on itll be very hard, but think she’s every bit worth it. She very beautiful, very kind, super trustworthy, Ik she’s an amazing mom, but I’d probably only get to see her once or twice a year(edit: we figured out a way to see each other once or twice a month instead of once or twice a year way may doable and easy then what we thought) until we either find a place to live together or break up, it’s a difficult situation def with kids involved cause we don’t wanna move to far away to where the other parent won’t get to there child or I won’t get to see mine as much as I’d like. Very difficult situation, and I’d rather not lose her, Ik she’s good. How should/would we even go about this. Any advice from people in long distance relationships?