reposting cause of my typo on the title earlier
is it still possible to make good, lasting friendships, even best friends, as a male introvert in your 30s?
if so, how?
Please dont repost this, I'm asking for my husband, who realized he doesn't have friends that show up for him even if he shows up for them all the time 😔 hes so kind, self sacrificing and reliable that people literally forget about him or always choose someone else to help because they always think he never needs it. Even his own family and brothers choose others before him and it hurts to see him hurt.
if you have any advice, please share.
He's always the silent, reliable one who you can always count on. He's kind, he shows up, he makes the effort but it seems he hasn't found anyone who will reciprocate this. he finally opened up, and even cried to me about it, after years of holding it in.
I see him trying to make friends but no success.
he works in construction, he's into surfing, computer games, flying drones, traveling..
also, can you give me advice how to show up as a wife too?
he said I'm the only one who made him feel like #1, i always choose and show up for him. I just want to be able to help him on this as well.