I’m 19F and I’m kind of confused and frustrated with my own body, so I’m hoping for some insight. I can get really turned on and I can masturbate and orgasm, but it almost never feels satisfying or “complete.” It’s like my body does the thing but my brain is left feeling underwhelmed or still wanting something more.
I only ever orgasm from clitoral stimulation. After I orgasm I usually stop because my clit gets sensitive pretty fast. On top of that my right hand starts to feel numb and tingly if I use it too much. This happens to me in general when drawing, texting, etc, not just with masturbation. So rubbing my clit, using a vibrator, or using a dildo with that hand can get uncomfortable pretty quickly.
Sometimes after I orgasm, I’ll try using a dildo anyway because penetration still feels good, but it never gets me anywhere close to another orgasm. It just feels nice and then that’s it. Because of all this, masturbation just feels kind of unsatisfying even when I do cum. I also never really try to keep going after orgasm because the sensitivity and the hand issues make it feel like too much.
I don’t know if this matters but I’m still a virgin.
Is this something other people experience? Is it just how my body works right now or is there something I could try differently? Any advice or reassurance would really help. Thanks 🖤