Serious answers from men only please – please go easy.
Was hooking up with this guy for a few months. I think he was sexually inexperienced (was definitely relationship inexperienced). He never tried to push boundaries and always seemed to wait for my cues to escalate.
Eventually things escalated to him fingering me. He was good with his hands, i made sure to tell him this both verbally and non verbally.
One time we were hooking up (i was on top, mostly naked) and I could feel this like shaking motion. I looked back and he was jerking himself. He stopped immediately, why? It was sexy as hell i should have told him not to stop. Was he just super aroused?
Then I decided in the moment to help him out (first time touching his dick). I gripped it gently and then he pushed my hand away. Why? That was confusing. Then a few seconds later he took my hand and placed it back on letting me finish him off. Maybe lasted like a minute. He finished on his stomach. Before I could help clean up he got up and went to bathroom to clean himself.
After we were super comfortable as normal.
Then a few days later he broke it off with me.
P.s. i'm not super clingy or anything. He broke it off and I didn't chase.
I guess im just a little confused by his behaviour.