One thing I have realized about my relationship is that my husband plays games with me a lot. He will come to me and talk “trash” about someone but actually likes what they do. Example: “ my friend doesn’t treat his wife well, he complains about anything he does for her” in a few weeks he complains about paying 2/3 of bills and becomes an issue ( he makes more than me)
- he tells me how a female coworker is annoying and wants him to go out of his way for her , but he let her know he doesn’t play those games, this female coworker doesn’t take good care of herself, her husband doesn’t treat her well. A few months later he is confiding in this coworker about our marriage and telling me to get advice from her so i can be like her.
How do i deal with someone like this?