This is kind of an odd issue because it's usually the reverse of my situation. Like the title says, I'm not a horny teen anymore, but this issue is still prevalent.
"Everything" was obviously an exaggeration but what causes my erections are ridiculous. Guys breathing on me if they're close enough (especially if their breath is hot), guys chewing (the noises), any sort of touch on my neck, back, or waist, etc. This is all incredibly inconvenient especially when the said guys are my friends and I feel like I have a problem. Ignoring the fact that these erections happen in inconvenient or inappropriate places, they sometimes are "so hard" that they hurt if that makes sense.
These ridiculous triggers have forever made it aggravating to hang out with any male friends or guys in person. I haven't told people these because I am afraid of being seen as freakish or a pervert.
If it matters, I'm a virgin (and I don't plan on changing that anytime soon because I'm insecure). How do I fix this situation? What are some possible causes to this sensitivity? Any advice is so so so welcome because this issue is exhausting!