My partner and I have been together for over 3 years now, and have been living with each other for the last 7 months. When it came towards our physical intimacy, it was always something to look forward to on weekends when we visited each other during our time not living together. Yet as the months have gone, I've been feeling it harder to want to engage in anything heavily physical with her nowadays. We both have busy schedules in our work life as well as other factors like our social life, therapy, and generally other busy projects and errands that take up most of our weekends. I do want to preface this and say that the few times we have it, I enjoy our physical acts together as I feel like she's the most compatible person intimacy-wise I've ever been with. Yet even after tons of difficult talks and her reassurance to me that she doesn't expect sex a lot, but wants connection, I feel that she's sabotaging her physical needs to pacify and calm my own anxiety now. I love her so much, and I want to satisfy her needs mentally, emotionally, and you guessed it, physically as well without her having to constantly compromise against herself. Can anyone give some helpful tips with how to manage my headspace when it comes to this?