Before I begin anything, I just want to say that this is a throw-away account. For some reasons which will become clear later on. 😅
First of all, I’ll give some backstory so you guys can get a feel of how this shi tends to go down.
In total, we have been together for just over 2 years.
Somewhere roughly in the middle of this, we broke up due to daily arguments over.. I don’t even know half the time.
Things seemed to be going back on track for quite a while, until my father became ill.
He became terminally ill in March, which flipped my life upside down.
She was supportive I guess, could’ve been better but could’ve been worse. ~ anyway,
The small “pointless” arguments seemed to slowly creep back.
She just gets upset over little things which in my opinion are pathetic.
I just had so much on my plate, and “real problems”.
Whilst she is complaining that I didn’t compliment a picture of some food she is eating! (1 of many possible examples of these pathetic things).
Another example is, she was busy with her friends.
So I met up with my mate to go smoke, he brought his GF which is fine with me. I told her that my friend brought his girlfriend, and she goes crazy as if I have done something wrong.
I have no interest in other women, BUT ESPECIALLY NOT MY FRIEND’S GIRL.
Oh also, she unfollowed every single girl on my Instagram account (I DONT EVEN HAVE A SINGLE POST, not even a profile picture)
Yet she follows boys and actually posts pics of herself?! I point out these types of double standards all the time, but it falls on deaf ears.
She goes through my phone all the time, and seems kind of disappointed when she doesn’t find anything? It’s so confusing 🤦♂️
She sometimes says things during arguments that cut me deeply lowkey, but afterwards will say she did not mean these things.
Ever since my dad died, I feel a bit cold.
I can no longer empathise with her pathetic little problems, and she calls me horrible because of this.
Sometimes she questions why we are together, like she literally says to me “why am I even with you”. But this was sad out of “frustration” and she “didn’t mean it” 💔.
It’s hard, and I think I just need some guidance.
I never talk about my problems on the internet, but this is something I would’ve spoken to my dad about :/
It’s like every day i am fighting a losing battle, my heart is already on the floor dealing with my dad’s death.
I have done everything I can to continue life as normal, but I will never be the same man I was before his death.
She says the “old” me used to care, but now I apparently don’t.
Overall, my question is, at what point do you call it quits?