Should I be worried? My husband of 12 years works at a bar in our town. We are both well known as is our marriage because we used to work the bar together. The other bartender that he works with the majority of the time (female) is almost 15 years younger than me. My husband feeds her cats while she's out of town, uses her streaming logins and I just watched her 2025 recap on social, and he was in it, alone, a few times. He was even in her "emotional support group chat" when her boyfriend broke up with her. I've told him before that I think it's disrespectful of her to ask a married man to do things for her and he just blew it off. I trust my husband fully, but worry that his coworker may have an agenda, especially since her boyfriend of several years just broke up with her. The other night, I went to eat dinner at the bar with my friends, and she completely ignored me. This fueled my suspicion and is really the reason I am posting this. As a summary, my husband works with a much younger woman and she is doing things that make me suspicious of her intent. TIA for any thoughts!


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