During a Trip to spain of my GF of 3y of relationship with some her female friends , I sent a controlled and rude message asking to not go nightclubs and breaking up with her if she went. She didnt liked it. Of course. obviously.
It was First week of november.
She came back, We met november 15th, She was very upset dissaponted, told me that I lost the shine to her, We kind that reconciliate beside of that, everything was good for 10 days,
in december she became kind distant, less excited to see me, cold e little disrespectul. I stopped to sent message and tried get together.
We didnt send message each other for 4 weeks. She watched some instagram stories of mine during this period.
i sent to her yesterday a happy new year message, she replied politely
I dont know if i try again an reconciliation or assume that its over. I like her a lot
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Bro is a bozo unfortunately, move on and get good unfortunately
Unless you’re ready to concede that at nearly 50 this woman doesn’t need you controlling where she goes and doesn’t go there’s probably no point in a reconciliation. Ultimately you either trust her to make her own decisions or you don’t. If you don’t you shouldn’t be dating her.
She’s dumped you. I’m not sure what your question is.
Please report these shitposts. OP has been spa@mming variations of this story changing their ages and relationship length for the last 4 months.
Time for some serious self reflection.
You are both grown adults. Why are you sending her controlling and rude demands at any time, much less when she’s on vacation?
Do you have a substance abuse problem? I am serious. You appear to not be able to control your own behavior. I wouldn’t put up with you either.
This relationship is over. Get yourself in hand so you do not blow up the next good relationship you have a chance at.
Why would you stay with someone that wants to act single and then gives you the silent treatment like a child?